I just took a course on counselling and you are not supposed to advise people to do anything. Maybe guide them but let them figure things out themselves.
I think Brad is still in love with someone else and can't move on. He is not a stupid man!! He treated the women last night like a business decision. It was cut and dry. He probably cared about them but was not able to make a decision. He was not focused on why he was there.
When you go on a show like this you have to be totally open and prepared to fall in love. If you don't that is fine because it is too short a period for anyone to fall in love. People think they are in love but really they love being around that person. The man or woman has to be unattached and ready for love or it won't work. Brad is old enough to know what he wants in a women and just did not find this with these women.
I give him credit for honesty. I don't agree with him leading them on. Honesty and trust in a relationship is the most important thing.
Brad I hope you find what you are looking for. Jenni and Deanna you will find that right person one day and don't settle. Dating services are the way to go now a days. I know because I found my husband when I was 25 through Lifemates. We highly recommend it.
yours truly
Married lady